yes you are right...your first reaction should not be to reach for a phone...but do you do the right thing everytime it happens the first time? Immature??? maybe he is, but not in this situation...he was just in shock and did what any human would do when you get bad news...you reach out to get comfort or guidence. just funny how people can call a person immature but not be in thats person shoes. Immatureity is watching a show, and judging a man without knowing his feelings.