At the end of the day, regardless of what you tried to tell them, kids are going to experiment with alcohol and sex. Its the parents job to not live in denial, realize whats happening, and have a grown up talk about it. Im from a very small town so word gets around about damn near anything. My parents always called me on my bull**** when they heard stuff. Some of my friend's parents just refused to ever believe their baby would do any wrong and kept turning a blind eye. I ended up better off than a lot of them.