I am sure Dan is paying the price every day he has to see his family and know that they know too. As for those saying it is a personnel matter you are right when you lie, cheat and steal as most all of us have done at one time or another it is a personnel matter. Still I am not in favor of folks defending lying, cheating or stealing. IMO it's saying you believe it's fine for you to stop by on the way home from work have sex with a stranger go home to your wife or husband kiss them on the cheek put your kids to bed and rationalize your behavior is fine. Tell you what go tell your better half who ever that's what you believe and see how many points you score if you have a relationship.