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How do you "choose" to be attracted to someone of the same gender? Forgive my crudity, but a stiff Johnson has no conscience. It either gets up or it doesn't. It's involuntary and visceral; does not involve the conscious mind at all. Remember all those embarrassing erections in junior high? Well, If you're attracted to other men, you get the same involuntary woody for guys, not girls, and the only "choice" is whether to have sex or not.
That's what I call being homosexual, without having to involve the Baltimore Catechism or the Seven Deadly Sins.
Now, if what you're saying is that gay people should choose not to have sex, that's another topic altogether.
Good question. We all face sin daily and have to make decisions on how to deal with it. So yes if you are a Christian and believe you are gay and read the bible it has to be hard. Man dealing with sin is a deep subject, forget all about the gay issue for the moment and at so many levels it is so easy to be sinful. So yes in terms of trying to abstain from sin you pretty much hit the nail on the head thats all you can do. Dealing with temptation we all need help because it is embedded in the nature of mankind.