So, what was the broad's name who stood you up?
What the **** was this about??
We aren't worried about "Fair" though , are we?
Look who resurrected this thread.
What a surprise!
If they were here, I'm sure they'd define "work" a little differently than you. Work includes communication with inmates, de-escalation, problem-solving, suicide-prevention, and so forth, as well as being diligent and putting in long hours.
Maybe some female employee there de-escalated an inmate one day, and prevented violence that could have occurred against the male staff, on a different day. Maybe you should be thanking her.
And it goes both ways, with the men helping out the female employees and having their back. It's called working as a team.